XMPP WIKI:Community Portal
Where do I find the Jabber community?
You will find many of us where we should be, on Jabber! You can join us in the jabber room on the conference.jabber.org chat service. The jdev room is also *the* place for Jabber developers to join the discussions.
Outside of Jabber there are other places you will find us, the mailing lists for example - a list of which is available over on xmpp.org.
A forum, including an interface to those very same mailing lists, is also available at jabberforum.org.